Brett Favre. You either love him or hate him. I’m of the former camp. Any 40+ quarterback that says ‘Screw you and if I still want to play football, am able to do it well, then I should be able to’. I might also add better then the quarterbacks of all those teams that didn’t make it this far. Too bad the Vikings lost. I would have loved to see a 40 something kick butt in the Superbowl. Maybe next year and hopefully with a one year older Farve leading the way.
Archive for January, 2010
40 Something Quarterbacks
Sunday, January 24th, 2010Saturday up keep
Saturday, January 23rd, 2010What a thing we women do! I am sitting at the Solon getting a mani-pedi. Why? I love the look and the feel, but the time and money? They don’t serve wine just water. Everyone is speaking another language and others pretend to read the months old mags. Why do we do this? I love the sexy look! I always wonder what they are saying, Tina to Tammy– look at these ugly toes why me!! or maybe hairy beast can she shave first!! or She rich women, you need an eye brow waxing–bad!Done 80$ but it makes me feel great!
Weekend up date
Sunday, January 17th, 2010My friend posted this on facebook this weekend. Unfortunely 97 % will not repost this: “I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can’t handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best”. Marilyn Monroe. if you’re one of the 3% that will admit to the truth then repost this. I am!I read this and felt power! It is so true how often do women get hushed by others because of their strength.My weekend was calm and relaxing, nothing exciting. It has been a rainy and cold weekend. I am looking forward to work, weird I know but I am thinking I need something to do.
Sundays
Sunday, January 3rd, 2010I love Sundays. We trade off and today was her turn. That means she gets up with the dogs and then makes breakfast while I stay in bed. Today’s breakfast was fried potatoes and sausage covered in cheese and sour cream. Yum. This was accompanied by our usual Sunday morning mamosa. During football season that means we stay in bed watching the pregame show (and sometimes the 1st game) drinking mamosas until the bubbly is gone. Often, but not today, that is followed by sex. Today our dog got in the way of that. So much for man’s best friend.We didn’t progress much beyond that. After getting up and showering we headed to Gemini to watch football. Another football season passtime. The place it pretty low key on Sunday and the waitresses are all friends by now. A few weeks from now I’m sure we will be going to their Super Bowl party. Great fun you might want to join us.
New Year’s Eve. His perspective.
Friday, January 1st, 2010‘The Club’ as we call it is something new for us. I have never been with another woman since we have been married. We have often talked about having a threesome and have even propositioned a few woman. To no luck. Does that mean our current love life is boring or non-adventuresome. Nope not by a long shot. But that is for another post.Club Sesso is a highly erotic place. People are there for one reason. Sex. Whether it be participating or watching. And amazingly enough all within boundaries that make if feel safe. Maybe that is why I felt it was easy to go wherever our fantasies took us. We spent a lot of time watching and fantasing. One fantasy early in the night was a single girl there. A unicorn. The mythical unattached girl at a sex club. Never happens, but there she was. Although we didn’t really get a chance to persue her, the thought that we could was very erotic. Later one of the more attractive couples started to make out next to us. He started by exposing and sucking on her breasts and progressed to playing with her pussy. Watching that and the thought of it happening right next to us made me very hard. I played with my wife’s breasts under her shirt and her pussy through her pants. Would they proposition us to join them? Would we say yes? Would I dare ask them? We never got a chance to find out as an ‘unattached’ man put himself between us. (As a side note I think they shouldn’t allow unattached men at the club or at least ban them from upstairs). We watched the same couple later as he ate her on the bar. I got even harder and as I would find out later my wife got very wet. I asked my wife if she would like to go the couple’s lounge. Yes and a new adventure started.We made our way down to the lounge; finding an open bed right next to the door. I was hesitant, could we really fuck out in the open with a dozen others either fucking next to us or watching. Surprisingly I was even more turned on and we started to kiss and take off our clothes. I sucked on her breasts and made my way down between her legs to her pussy. It was wet. Her clit was hard and excited. I love the way she tastes when she’s REALLY excited. Somehow its even better. I knew people were watching. That made me even more turned on, I could barely keep from exploding just thinking about what we were doing. All too soon I found my cock deep in her pussy. I took only a few short thrusts and came hard inside her. I was conscious of the fact it was way too soon and she begged for me to play with her until she came. I reached my hand down playing with her wet cum socked pussy until she came. I rolled off and found another couple waiting to use our bed. We dressed and the night at the club drew to a close, at least for us, a little while later. It was fun and exciting to know others had enjoyed watching us that night. Will we do it again? Maybe. Will we do more next time? Maybe. The fantasy is often just as erotic.
New Year’s Eve
Friday, January 1st, 2010What an adventure! We decided to go to “The Club” to ring in the new year. “The Club” is Sesso a high end sex club. It was a night of many firsts, unusual sights, and intimidating acts.First, Sesso is a high end sex club, they give tours at 8:30pm on Friday and Saturday if you are interested. It is worth the time to see how things work and where things are. There are two floors, the first is open with a dance floor and full bar. When you walk through the door at the end of the bar there is no alcohol allowed. This area has food. Not my thing – naked bodies, sex and food– NO! On this floor you can shower, use a locker, eat dinner and use some of the hundreds of condoms throughout the rooms.There is also a couples only room with chaise lounge chairs, condoms and clean sheets. Couples can have sex and play or invite more than your partner – orgies if you choose. We spent some time here on New Years eve. It was weird, but very erotic. Lying on a lounge chair my arms spread over my head, my husband between my legs, licking and eating me. I opened my eyes to see a couple in front of the bed watching. Both attractive, he was playing with her boob and his hand other hand was under her dress playing with her clit. It was unsettling at first, a turn-on after that. It was remarkably erotic for me, I could see them in front of me, see the woman’s face, the pleasure of both. At the sometime feeling my husband between my legs. Amazing.On the second floor there are small rooms with mattresses, doors and curtains, in the open area mattresses surrounded by a bar for perfect watching, and a room with a swing. I think I want to try this sometime. We stood on the balcony watching the dancers and others at the bar below. What an eclectic group, small, medium, large and very large! Old, young, first timers, and return clients. I am weirded out by the size and age of some of the people. Fat!!! Not my thing. Old and saggy- not so much! I was also kind of creep-ed out by the number of single men, they seemed to come out of the woodwork at the hint of open sex. At one point a sexy women was at the bar, her partner was going down on her. Very sexy!! All of a sudden five single men surrounded them, YUCK! She had to stop, it really sucked!. A single man has to pay three times the cover to get in and the bouncers are very close, so if you feel uncomfortable just say something and the guys are escorted out. One of the rules of the club is “don’t be creepy”! I love it.It was exciting to stand on the balcony and watch the dancers with my hubby playing with me breasts and clit. It felt wonderful, his hard-on was pressing against my back, his breath was hot on my neck. Watching the people below and them watching me, I never thought this would be a turn-on but it really was.Overall, we had a great night. I can’t wait to go back on a night with fewer people. I am thinking I would like to try the upstairs rooms. Maybe the swing with the curtains closed at first. It could be very embarrassing I think!! I am surprised at how arousing it is to watch others having sex. the way their bodies move and look. Think about it we all do it. We all enjoy certain things. There is something very titillating about seeing what others do, are we so different from others, are we similar to them? The questions can be answered, by watching others. The level of excitement it creates is remarkable, and kind of scary.
Introduction to HIS
Friday, January 1st, 2010I guess I should do an introduction too. I’m not sure how I would describe myself and don’t think about it too much. Obviously in my 40s. She and I often get mistaken for a much younger couple. Yes a compliment we both love to hear, but it is the result of one of things we do quite often. Exercise. I can’t say I like to exercise. But I do love the feeling afterwards or when I feel ‘strong’ as the result. Unfortunately I’m at a low point due to an injury right now 🙁 Another aspect is we tend to have hobbies that also keep us in shape. Biking is probably the primary one, but snowshoeing or plain old hiking tend to also be on that list.What else? Well I’m a mid-level manager in high tech. Sort of fell into this position. Personally I feel it has a lot to do with the fact a strong work ethic and intgrity are high on my list of qualities I feel are important and try to practice. I enjoy my job, but at times it can be real pain. Most everyone can say that though.Lastly I love being married and enjoying time with my wife. We enjoy the same things and aren’t scared to try new things. Some we end up loving. Some we don’t. But even with those the adventure of something ‘new’ is a big part of the fun. Maybe that is why we have been married for so long and probably will be for years to come.Hope you enjoy our blog and finding out more about us as we continue our adventures.
Introduction to HERS
Friday, January 1st, 2010Let me introduce myself, I have decided I am staying at 45 for a few more years. My age is really close, but I think I like 45. Old enough to have confidence and yet a willingness to try anything once. I love to exercise, but am about 30 pounds over weight again! I snow shoe, bike, walk and have two beautiful daughters and a extremely wonderful grand-daughter. My husband and I have been married for a very long time. I like being married. After all this time we know each other and what our limits and boundries are, it makes playing fun. We play silly little games, rating people in terms of how close their body matches mine. I am confident but still very aware of the 30 pounds!! (damn scale it goes up fast and down really really slowly!!) We also rate others on a scale of “would you fuck them” petty yes but fun. We try not to be mean about it, in both games, it makes dinners and people watching really fun.I do work, however it is in a field that requires a great deal of confidentiality. Lets just say I have a BS in Psychology, BA in Education, and Masters of Education degrees. I interact with people of many ages and have summers off to play! It is really a great gig, I love what I do and those I work with.
Welcome to 4playat40!
Friday, January 1st, 2010Welcome to 4playat40! This blog tracks the adventures of a 40 year old couple. Follow us as we blog about all aspects of being a couple in their 40s.